Beautiful Memories

MY WORK IN SUBHA BAHAR MAGAZINE

ARTICLE ON TEACHER'S DAY : OCTOBER 5TH 

 POEM ON MEMORIES (YADAIN)

 STORY ON SOCIAL ISSUE

MY ARTICLE ON GIVEN TOPIC IN URDU

A Secret Of Balance Between Personal & Professional Life

Life is a combination of a balance between personal and professional life .Imbalance between any one can lead to unsuccessful life which is full of distress and depression.As WILLIAM MENNINGER gives six essential qualities which are the keys to success 

1.Sincerity 

2.Humility

3.Wisdom

4.Personal Integrity

5.Courtesy

6.Charity

• SINCERITY:

                "It is a virtue of one who speak and act truly about his /her own                                                                             feelings,belief,thoughts and desire."
Sincerity is a prime virtue of living a successful life .It benefits both your personal and professional relationship.It reduces the false personality.When our thoughts and beliefs are sincere in every phase of life it will portray our character and polishes it.Our sincere thoughts not only motivate us but also give courage to others to do good.The accomplishment of any goal can not be achieve without sincere efforts attaining your desire ambition.You should be sincere to yourself and your goal.Shortcuts are easy to achieve but pay you more in the end.
                                                     Sincerity Is The Way To Heaven

• HUMILITY:

                      "It is the quality of being modest or low view of one's importance."
Humbleness can give you a chance to establish a balance between your personal and professional relationship.Lack of pride not only increases your inner beauty but it also increases your face glow.When you decreases your importance or increases  your modesty you not only listen the problems of others in association but you now actually feel the pain they bear in establishing a healthy links under the roof of compromises.You can be a wealthy person in the long run but can not be called successful without humility.
                                               Humility Is The Foundation Of All Virtue.

• WISDOM:

       "It is the quality of having a combination of experience ,knowledge and good judgement."
A person can achieve sincerity and humility by hard work and efforts but can not lead a prosperous life without using your intelligence and knowledge at right time ,at right place and on right person.Your wisdom give you power to take prompt decision at the given situation and having a fruitful end result.You can not be wise at every situation but how you tackle the situation is your wisdom.Your intelligence and understanding can bring success in your failure.
                                               Wisdom Is The Wealth Of The Wise. 

• PERSONAL INTEGRITY:

     "It is the quality of being honest with yourself and others and living a life aligned with your                                              moral principles not just liberty."
It deals with the mode of upbringing,the surrounding atmosphere and especially behavior of family towards themselves and their children. No one can be wise,sincere and humble with good character traits if he/she could not see these virtues in their mentors(Parents,relative and teachers).These mentors set an example in front of them to achieve a goal.It comes from integrating our life experiences with our belief systems.We cannot remove teaching of our childhood from our lives.We can build a strong belief system in our children which can help them through out their lives for a parallel personal and professional life.
                         People With Integrity Do What They Say They Are Going To Do.
                                                             Others Have Excuses

• COURTESY:

        "It is the quality of showing politeness in one's attitude and behavior towards others ."
It helps in making friends decrease no. of enemies ,professional rivalries and increase your popularity not only in professional but also in personal relationship.It portray your manners in dealing others.Courtesy is a gift to others how you treat and behave with warmth and respect.
                                   Courtesy Is The Foundation Of  All Good Manners

• CHARITY:

                        "It is the practice of being benevolent, giving and sharing."
it is the last essential quality which opens the door towards success not only in personal and professional life but also in hereafter.Charity is the voluntary giving of help to those in need not only by our money but sometimes our attitude towards others pay more than money.If we think positively for others ,it is also a type of hidden charity which only knows by ALLAH ALMIGHTY .It rewards us with the pleasure of doing good deeds and increases our peace of mind.
                                  Every Charitable Act Is A Steeping Stone Towards Heaven

What Your Zodiac Symbol Reveals About Your Personality...........................

           

Zodiac,astrology, what is in our future everyone is curious about its future.Today in this article you can know something interesting about your zodiac symbol so read it without any offence.

      Symbolize by RAM which give Aries strength to take risk.they                                                        are famous for their stubborn risky nature without having fear of                     end result if they want to do it then go for it.

Symbolize by BULL which give them purpose to life their life                                                                for themselves and others especially their families.They are fair                                                              in their relationships and love them unconditionally which                    sometime take them for-granted .

 Symbolize by TWIN which doubles their power in                                                                                 every phase of their life because of their symbol they have dual                                                           nature they can display different for different situations and can hide their feelings.

Symbolize by CRAB which make them humble and gentle.The people who are Cancers are blessed people because mostly their wishes come true before their pray.They are fun-loving and enthusiastic people.They always happy whatever they do with their will.

Symbolize by LION which give them powerful fearless and dominant physical appearance love to live a calm life .But behind this powerful lion a very kind person is their which need a boost from their family to motivate them to take decisions independently .

Symbolize by VIRGIN(girl) .They seems to think that they are the king /queen of their own world . They have fear for recession.They are unable to compete failure again and again.They start cursing themselves and play blame games.

Symbolize by SCALES which give balance in life.They are the most focus people in the astrology world.They love relationship hate to being alone.

Symbolize by SCORPION ,EAGLE OR SERPENT which give them the nature that they either love or hate (a do or die) verdict for others.they are the most protective star in expressing their feelings for friends,family and others.They can discriminate between desirable and undesirable dreams of their life.They always remember their enemies and never forgive them.

Symbolize by CENTAUR or ARCHER the half man and half body of horse represent the adventurous nature of Sagittarius .They love sports and travelling.They are thrillers full of life.

Symbolize by GOAT which give them courage to bear unfavorable condition as goat tolerates the weather so Capricorns struggle the stressful situation.they have their mindset in early stages of their life  to reach highest peak.They want top position in life if they unable to get it they strive for it till the last breath.

Symbolize by  WATER -BEARER which give them desire to have all the best things in their life.They carry a huge wish list with them when one wish come true another one get ready to be fulfilled.They have the thirst of desires and want them at any cost.They are artistic mind but show it when they need it.

 Symbolize by TWO FISH tied together but swim in opposite direction represent the twist and turns of their personality.They can readily absorbs the positive and negative vibes at the same time.They are the most spiritual person in the zodiac world which polishes their six sense to save from treachery.They are moody and the most famous day dreamers but surprisingly most of their dream comes true.They can achieve their dreams after any criticism or any drastic event of their life. 

A LOGIC BEHIND EVERY CELEBRATION.......................TRUE OR FALSE

One day while watching a morning show the question or answer a caller give to the host pinpoint me the real cause of distress in our life.as the caller said that the developing countries when they lost anyone when the specie completely extinct from the society then they gathered and celebrate a day for that specie like grand parents',mothers',fathers' ,valentine's day and many more .the under developed countries like us as they are master of copying anything like fashion ,style,traditions etc without knowing the history of the day they celebrated, they only know that it comes from the developed countries so without any hesitation they copy that tradition and paste on their lives ,what ever it cost (their lives,their relationships etc) they pay of and celebrate it with full enthusiasm and make it obligatory part of their lives and urge other people to gain pleasure from these worldly entertainments.as the time passes and as we saw where our society stand a day is near when we celebrate a day of life with no sorrows ,hatred ,enviousness and call it a "DAY OF HAPPY LIFE. "

SUCCESS IN MY EYES

SUCCESS

Success by general definition we all know is “the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.” But what the aim or purpose of life everyone has its one aim or goal of life someone consider success by having fame somebody consider himself successful by making money and become the wealthiest person in the surrounding. The most struggles for success are done to attain status in the society by these the definition for success becomes “the attainment of fame, wealth or social status.”From late1940s-2015 onward the definition of success drastically changes from upside down or vice versa .The success divides into three types basic, intermediate and fluent.

BASIC SUCCESS (1940-1960):

It is the era of our grandparents the success in its pre stage the initial steps are taken to become successful in life not for themselves but for whole society. The creation of Pakistan is the most prominent example of basic success the people in this era practice those things which they preach. The time when education and knowledge has the prime importance in person’s life. The people in this era are the pioneers of achievement. They give definite meaning to the word success. They also give their coming generations the road which leads them to success.

INTERMEDIATE SUCCESS (1960-2000):

It is the era of our parents the period of victory and achievements. The success rate in this time drastically increase in every field science, media and fiction it give birth to great doctors , engineers , researchers etc .When children are educated to gain knowledge their quest for information in youth and their desire to reach the highest peak of success. The main reason of their sensational victory is that they do not forget the struggle of their ancestors. They are grounded with their roots. They love to be famous and wealthy but they love their motherland and humanity.

FLUENT SUCCESS (2000-2015 ONWARDS):

It is the era of youth “our era”. The period of inventions and creativity. When every day brings new challenge, hopes and information to the world .the time when success is in tor fingertips. We are blessed because we are born with the golden spoon which our father and forefathers gave as a present to us the struggle the hardships and obstacles they faced in getting it we cannot even imagine. We are unable to imagine the un bearable pain they faced. Latest information can come to us in a millisecond but is our youth can come under the category of gaining knowledge or they are using all these stuff only for seeking pleasure. What our role in building a ladder towards success???THINK BEFORE ITS TOO LATE…..

MEMORIES OF LIFE

" Life Is A Beautiful Combination Of Sorrows,Obstacles,Trauma And Tragedy With An End Result Of Eternal Happiness."
         It is an experience  that in the life of this world everyone is bestowed by the countless blessings of CREATOR.Its human nature either he avails the blessing ,get a chance and gain the highest peak or he loses that chance in complaining about the obstacle he faces in life and become an underdog,loser,coward and disbelieving person .After going through this catastrophe of your life think and realize what you gain from this either optimistically pass through it or pessimistically play the blame game .Do not waste time as life is valuable do not cry over spill milk learn from your bad experience. 

TECHNOLOGY DISASTER

     Today in this era of technology, the age of modernism, the era of T Rps when the whole world is in your palm, from one click the scenario of the world changes. The little information either personnel or professional can be spread in milliseconds. As the world grows ,with the progression of science the so called ‘privacy setting’ of our life have come under public sector ,even a prep student has a social sector or come under the charisma of social networking. From toddler till the age described by Shakespeare we all mesmerize by the fascinating gadgets around us.

It gives us a platform to explore different sections of the world within no time and cost. But, then, a question strikes that why technology behaves as a disaster. The progress of science is beneficial for the sake of humanity but excessive use of anything leads to disaster .from remote of television to palm top unnecessary use of appliances deteriorate our lives results in the destruction of youth and society.

Technology amuses us in three ways. Psychologically it changes our mood from depression to cheerfulness. As the mood changes we behave nicely and it makes us physically powerful and spiritually our trust on our creator increases day by day. In the similar manner it affects our mental health badly if we excessively use it. For example if we stuck to T.V., computer or even our smart phone from dawn to dusk it affects our brain capacity to absorb more information  ultimately we lack concentration which has negative impact on our schedualized life resulting in lack of self confidence ,concentration and state of well being. More over we physically become lazy having problems like fatigue ,insomnia ,depression ,tension ,mood swings etc.it badly influence our spiritual health when we sleep late at night then how we wake up early in the morning. We all know the famous nursery rhythm  

EARLY TO BED, EARLY TO RISE

MAKES A MAN HEALTHY WEALTHY AND WISE

In the above mentioned paragraph even the good use of these machinery affects  our body so much then think twice even thrice its abusive use how poorly affects our body not only ethically ruins our lives but scientifically it changes our physiology and morphology and the whole society suffers.

To minimize the loss it is the duty of every parent to know what their children’s daily activity is but not in the way that roan around their 24/7. Just a strict eye of observance is enough to notice them. Secondly  do not preach your child those things whom you yourself not portray .parents are the first teacher of their child .they should display those norms that not only benefit you in this world but also in here after especially mothers’ their utmost responsibility is to invest their life to make their child an asset to the society.

The others which influence the young generation mostly is media both print and electronic .as they say no to corruption and crime then when they write or display any material think again and again before launching. Its agreeable that the stuff is for the awareness of society ,the person portraying that character are not me or not even of my family ,it’s a fictional character but think if it is me? Of my family?? Then the feeling drastically change we feel that unbearable pain that victim’s bear, his/her family suffers. The whole life changes from head to toe what we not even think!!!!As we are in the time when we write for money and display it for money. As we look t our youth technology world has destroyed them to the core. It amuses them psychologically and physically divert them from the bitter reality of life.

When the youth of country indulge in smart tabs for 24/7, they lack to compete with the growing competition in the world mentally and physically resulting in a backward society. Most importantly the so-called media think twice before writing and displaying about any incident. To enlighten the society with a certain crime is essential but they should remember their limits. Furthermore shows involving mature content should not be aired on prime time as it is a family time and it will negatively affect the children mind.

It’s not only the duty of parents’ and media but its duty of each and every member of society like teachers, friends, relatives, neighbors etc to stop misdeed of our young generation and if they think that efforts of one person cannot change the society then they also are the part of that crime intentionally or unintentionally because the destruction of youth is the destruction of the county.

                                                                                                                                               AFFAF SHEIKH 

TWO NATION THEORY OF MODERN ERA BEGINS..................

FOR PAKISTAN DAY CELEBRATION (23^rd MARCH, 1940)

TWO NATION THEORY OF MODERN ERA BEGINS……

Since our childhood ... Not exactly!  Our parents’ childhood... Nah!!!! Our grandparents or great grandparents all narrated that we got our independence on the basis of Two -  Nation Theory given by Sir Syed Ahmed Khan (the PIONEER ) first used the word TWO-NATION for Hindus and Muslims. This concept was the baseline of PAKISTAN RESOLUTION and foreigners in the sub-continent accepted the demand of separate homeland of Muslims of Sub-continent in this resolution in 1940 and after so many struggles PAKISTAN added as a separate entity on WORLD MAP on august 14, 1947. The ideology of Pakistan based on the establishment of an ideal state to propagate Islam and Islamic teaching and set an example for the world. JOHN S.C. ABBOT rightly said that “WAR IS THE SCIENCE OF DESTRUCTION “   but we can only win any war with unity and devotion.

In 2015, the era of technology we are on the highest peak in the race of modernism and inventions with the decline in the feelings of equality, fraternity and patriotism. The modern era of TWO-NATION THEORY now begins in home, society, relations and religion. The concept of ideology is same as in the past but the basis are now transformed into  Sectarianism, cast, racial killing and pride of being  Muslim by birth. The victims and fighters are of same origin. We are not fighting this battle on the issue of two separate cultural and spiritual values but are fighting for our own satisfaction .the norms and followers we believe are the best and all others are devils in disguise so we neither feel their pain nor their injury by being hurt from same species. We are only playing the blame game and are even earning profits on the death of our fellows (terrible!!!!).This war is based on the phrase “survival of the fittest “  originated in evolutionary theory as a way of describing the mechanism of natural selection is more commonly used today in other contexts as more you have power ,the more you survive in this modern civilization.

                          THERE IS NEVER A GOOD WAR OR A BAD PEACE.

  

                                                                                                                     AFFAF SHEIKH